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Flirting can be one of the most enjoyable aspects of being single, providing an exciting avenue for connection on dating apps or during social outings. This playful interaction often continues in the early stages of a relationship, where couples display heightened affection during what is commonly known as the “honeymoon phase.”
“At the onset of dating, our brains experience a surge of dopamine, the chemical that triggers feelings of happiness and confidence,” explains Emma Shandy, LMFT, a relationship and sex therapist at ESA Counseling. “Flirting serves as an instinctive way to indicate attraction while simultaneously fostering a bond between partners.”
However, as time progresses, the initial excitement often fades, and many couples find themselves in a routine rather than maintaining the flirtatious interactions that sparked their romance. “It’s quite normal for the playful flirting to diminish in long-term relationships,” Shandy notes. “As the novelty fades, life’s daily stresses can overshadow the initial thrill, making it easy to overlook the importance of maintaining that spark.”
This highlights the importance for couples to reintroduce flirtation into their relationships. “With a little intentional effort, you can easily revive the playful aspect of your connection,” she advises. Reignite the romantic energy with flirty exchanges to enhance closeness, rekindle attraction, and revive the joy of intimacy. Here are 15 flirty phrases to help you get started.
Flirty Phrases That’ll Turn Up The Heat
1. If you keep looking at me like that, I’ll forget what I’m trying to say…
This phrase is perfect for a casual conversation, especially during a date night. It’s a sweet way to spark interest and may lead to a more intimate setting.
2. I can’t stop thinking about how you looked this morning, and it’s distracting me at work.
Shandy appreciates this line as it creates a constant connection throughout the day, making your partner feel desired and building anticipation for later.
3. You know it’s not fair when you walk around in those pants…
Lifting spirits and playfully complimenting your partner’s appearance can be incredibly flirty. If their outfit catches your eye, don’t hesitate to let them know!
4. You come here often?
Use this line with a cheeky smile when your partner enters the room, infusing a lighthearted touch to your interaction.
5. Is it bad that all I want to do is go home?
Whisper this during a social event to convey your eagerness, and watch their face light up with the implication of your desire to be alone together.
6. You smell so good.
This seemingly simple compliment can express your attraction while hugging or cuddling, particularly if you say it after a workout, enhancing the sentiment that you find them appealing regardless of the situation.
7. Come here.
This assertive invite can add an exciting dynamic, whether you’re settling in for the night or reuniting after a long day.
8. I’m going to take a shower. Want to join me?
This phrase is direct and clearly enticing. Suggesting a shared shower can open the door to spontaneous intimacy that may have waned over time.
9. You’re making me blush.
This flirty affirmation reinforces the romantic nature of your relationship, reminding both of you that the spark still exists, even amidst mundane daily activities.
10. I have a surprise for you tonight…
This line can build excitement and anticipation. According to Dr. Trina Read, a sexologist and author of The Sex Course, it’s a great way to foster arousal outside of the bedroom.
11. If we weren’t in public right now, I’d be all over you.
This playful remark can spark excitement, especially in formal settings or social outings, bringing a thrill to the situation.
12. Remember that time when we…
Revisiting fond memories can rekindle feelings of passion. Whether it’s reminiscing about a romantic escapade or a fun adventure, this conversation can lead to playful banter.
13. Guess what I’m not wearing…
This intriguing hint promises to ignite your partner’s imagination and heightens the anticipation of your time together.
14. I really missed you.
Expressing this sentiment, even after a brief separation, can reinforce emotional closeness and suggest a playful desire for something more intimate.
15. You’re so sexy!
This straightforward compliment is often overlooked but is essential in maintaining attraction. Regularly acknowledging your partner’s allure can enhance your connection and intimate moments.
Sources:
Emma Shandy, LMFT, relationship and sex therapist at ESA Counseling
Dr. Trina Read, sexologist and author of The Sex Course
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