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In Bustle’s series Shooting Your Shot, single influencers and celebrities explore themes surrounding dating and social interactions, sharing their personal rules and preferences.
Brooks Nader, a model and dancer, recently shared her thoughts on dating and confidence in an interview, reflecting on her experience with Dancing with the Stars. This opportunity has proven beneficial for her self-esteem and personal growth.
Fresh off a five-year marriage to advertising executive Billy Haire, Nader partnered with professional dancer Gleb Savchenko on the reality show. Their undeniable chemistry sparked speculation about a romance, though Nader has clarified that while they grew close during their time on the show, they are not dating.
In her interview, Nader offered insights into her dating preferences, favorite cocktail recipe for special occasions, her relationship advice for her sisters, and her thoughts on modern dating apps.
When considering the best city for singles, is it New York or Los Angeles?
Nader expressed her preference for New York, citing its vibrant atmosphere and wide array of activities that allow for spontaneity. Unlike Los Angeles, where dining options often require commitment to a specific place, New York offers more casual options that can create a more relaxed dating experience.
Regarding the dinner versus drinks debate for a first date, which does she prefer?
She favors dinner, believing it provides a structured environment where even if the date doesn’t go well, one can exit gracefully. According to her, it presents a chance to assess character and manage the situation effectively.
What constitutes her ideal dinner date restaurant?
Nader highlighted her preference for establishments like Dante in Los Angeles and Chez Margaux in New York City, also mentioning her fondness for classic places such as the Polo Lounge. She appreciates when a date takes the lead and surprises her with plans.
What is her signature drink order?
As a fan of tequila and martinis, Nader adjusts her order based on her mood. She enjoys starting her pre-date routine with a glass of chardonnay or a spicy skinny margarita to build up excitement.
What makes a “Brooks Nader martini” special?
Her martini of choice is an extra cold, extra dirty vodka martini garnished with blue cheese olives. She jokes that its murky color has led people to call it “swamp water.”
What does she do to recover after a night out?
Nader swears by coffee, particularly an oat milk latte packed with five shots of espresso to energize her early mornings filled with shoots and travel.
As an older sister, what guidance does she give her siblings about dating?
Her advice is straightforward: if someone feels the need to persuade themselves that they like a partner after several dates, it’s likely a sign they do not truly have feelings for them.
How does she view dating apps?
Having never used dating apps, Nader has relied on connections made through mutual friends for her dating life. She also mentioned her experience on Dancing with the Stars, clarifying that her connection with her partner wasn’t romantic but rather professional.
What insights does she have regarding confidence in relationships?
Nader emphasizes the importance of self-assurance and comfort in one’s own company as foundational to confidence in romantic settings. Her transformative journey on Dancing with the Stars allowed her to develop this confidence, as she navigated the intimacy and physical demands of the experience.
Lastly, does she have a mantra she lives by?
Nader believes in being true to oneself, stating that this authenticity allows the right people to find you.
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