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Oman may not be the first country that comes to mind for those seeking a peaceful and fulfilling life abroad, but for Nicole Brewer, it has become a cherished home. Initially, when considering a move to the Middle East, Brewer, a Detroit native, thought about Dubai, a location many are familiar with. Oman, however, was not on her radar until she stumbled upon a teaching opportunity at a university in Nizwa, an ancient city known for its beauty.
After spending three years teaching English in South Korea, Brewer was ready for a new adventure. Intrigued by Oman’s allure, she undertook research about living there and decided to seize the opportunity. That decision led her to stay long-term, marking over a decade since she made the move.
Brewer reflects positively on her experiences, stating, “It’s been very great. I wouldn’t have stayed as long as I had if it wasn’t a good life here.” Her journey in Oman has provided her with a sense of gratitude and fulfillment.
Advantages of a Simple and Affordable Lifestyle
On the surface, Brewer may not seem like the typical expat in Oman. She doesn’t practice Islam nor does she speak Arabic, and acknowledges that the culture is conservative, especially in terms of public behavior and dress. “You have to have a certain mindset to be able to live comfortably in a region like this,” she explains, recognizing that it’s not suited for everyone. For those who adapt and respect local customs, however, the experience can be rewarding.
Brewer embraces a straightforward lifestyle, residing in a furnished two-bedroom apartment for $650 per month, conveniently located near her workplace. Her relocation to Oman followed a layoff during the 2008 financial crisis, pushing her to explore international work opportunities.
Socially, Brewer maintains a vibrant life, often dining out with fellow expats. Her dining expenses remain modest — she spent just $163 in the month of January. Regular trips to Muscat, the capital, add to her sense of investment in the community.
This affordable lifestyle allows Brewer to save for her travels. With an annual income of $44,000, she often takes advantage of school breaks to explore destinations such as Namibia, Seychelles, and Bali, enhancing her cultural experiences abroad.
Moreover, Brewer notes that the financial ease she experiences reduces stress, contributing to her overall well-being. “Being in Oman, I’m very relaxed. I don’t have as much stress when it comes to the everyday expenses of living,” she shares, affirming that this tranquility has played a role in her decision to stay in Oman.
The Reality of ‘Passport Privilege’
Brewer has no immediate plans to return to the U.S. Her aspirations lean towards retirement in Europe, and she appreciates the distinct experience of living abroad. She recounts her experiences as a Black woman in America, explaining that she encounters fewer racial challenges in Oman. “I wouldn’t say that I deal with much or any racism,” she notes, highlighting how being American earns her respect within the community. Locals express warmth towards her, often referring to her as “sister” when they learn of her profession as a teacher.
However, living abroad is not without its challenges. Brewer acknowledges that being away from family can be difficult, especially during emergencies. Dating also presents a hurdle, given the cultural restrictions surrounding casual relationships in Oman, leading her to primarily connect with other expats.
Despite these challenges, Brewer appreciates her lifestyle in Oman. “I feel very safe here. It’s not just a feeling. It’s a way of life,” she concludes, attributing her sense of security to the welcoming nature of the Omani people and the supportive community she has built.
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