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Dylan Mulvaney was on the verge of submitting her memoir draft to the publisher when the “Beergate” incident erupted. “I thought, ‘Hey, I need a bit more time,’ as I couldn’t bring myself to present any toxic positivity,” she shared with Bustle. Originally, the memoir, Paper Doll, was intended to extend her TikTok series, Days of Girlhood, where she openly discussed her transition with humor and authenticity. However, after an Instagram post promoting Bud Light resulted in death threats and a transphobic reaction, Mulvaney recognized the need to explore more profound themes.
“I found inspiration in Glennon Doyle, who has become a wonderful friend. [Untamed] empowered me to address difficult subjects,” Mulvaney explained, noting that her extensive journaling provided her with rich material. “I grew up in San Diego, involved in professional theater, surrounded by exceptional queer role models. One of them introduced me to The Artist’s Way, and I continued to engage with it throughout my life, committing more deeply during the pandemic,” she recounted. As she began her transition in 2022, she utilized her journals to reflect on her personal experiences.
As Mulvaney revisited her past writings, Paper Doll evolved into an honest exploration of her life, peeling back the layers of her glamorous, hyperfeminine persona. While the memoir retains the humor and exuberance characteristic of her TikTok presence, she is determined to present a version of herself stripped of that facade. “I sometimes feel like I’m a unique trans individual who has experienced both exceptional opportunities and significant challenges,” she remarked about her journey. “If my story can aid someone facing similar struggles, I’m always willing to help. I don’t label myself as an activist, but I passionately support the queer and trans communities through my work in theater and writing.”
In a reflective piece below, Mulvaney shares her thoughts on various topics, including watching The Traitors, reading Sissy by Jacob Tobia, and indulging in Domino’s pizza.
On reading about “genderf*ckery”:
Sissy by Jacob Tobia played a crucial role in my journey, especially during the year I identified as “they/them” before fully transitioning. Exploring the concept of genderf*ckery was particularly impactful. There are so many trans narratives today, each unique in its details. Yet, books like Elliot Page’s memoir and Raquel Willis’ work provide a shared resonance; no matter how our narratives differ, they reflect the beauty of stepping into one’s true self.
On the candy she’d fly across the pond for:
I’m absolutely hooked on Percy Pigs, a candy from the UK. I brought back 80 bags when I returned from London in December, but now I’m out! While writing my book, I indulged in spicy rolled tortilla chips from Trader Joe’s and always enjoyed a Dr. Pepper to keep me going.
On going anti-glam to write:
When I write, I prefer to look as unkempt as possible. I have this tie-dye dress that’s so unappealing it should never see the light of day, but it’s incredibly comfortable. I like to keep my hair in a messy bun, skip makeup, and embrace my natural state. It’s when I feel the most creative.
On the joy of bed rotting:
I celebrate productive writing days with Domino’s pizza in bed, allowing myself to zone out, watch The Traitors, and just relax. Alan Cumming is pretty much my best friend, and I can’t get enough of the show.
This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.
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