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Each day, the tarot expert at Bustle, Carolyn Steber, engages with readers by using her tarot deck to provide insights into their queries.
Q: My new relationship feels almost too perfect. Am I overlooking something?
A: Navigating the modern dating landscape can be challenging. The digital profiles often leave much to be desired, and even an initial connection can lead to unexpected heartaches, including ghosting.
When you genuinely connect with someone, it’s typical to experience some skepticism. Are they genuinely funny, attractive, and kind? If it starts to feel too ideal, it’s natural to be on the lookout for potential warning signs.
As you begin to form a deeper bond, particularly when you make things official, it’s easy for anxiety to creep in. If you find yourselves spending weekends together, discussing the future, and introducing each other to friends, worries may arise about the relationship unraveling or hidden flaws revealing themselves. Luckily, tarot can provide guidance.
Is Your New Relationship Destined to Fail?
The Four of Wands suggests themes of new beginnings, community, stability, and belonging, indicating that your partner may be a positive influence in your life and not overly perfect.
It’s reasonable to approach a new relationship with caution. However, if your partner respects your boundaries, shows enthusiasm for your time together, engages in honest communication (especially during disagreements), and shares discussions about the future, those are promising signs. Rather than feeling overwhelmed or bombarded with affection, a balanced relationship should progress at a comfortable pace.
Trust your instincts on how you feel around this person. If you experience comfort and relaxation rather than anxiety or infatuation, it could suggest a compatible match that aligns with your well-being. Additional reassurance comes if they consistently communicate without leaving you questioning their feelings.
How Can You Overcome Your Doubts?
If unease lingers, consider exploring the reasons behind your feelings of disbelief. Are you accustomed to turbulence in your relationships? Do you worry that favorable connections always fizzle out before too long? Is the ease of this relationship unfamiliar to you? Delving into these questions may provide clarity.
The presence of the Justice card indicates the importance of transparency with your partner regarding your feelings. This card embodies themes of truth, accountability, and honesty, suggesting that expressing your concerns could lead to significant relief.
A candid conversation will likely not only provide you with the reassurance you need but could also clarify the seriousness of your partner’s commitment. Should they respond defensively or dismiss your feelings, that would serve as a warning sign. In contrast, if they are willing to understand your perspective and work together to alleviate your concerns, it’s a solid indication that your new relationship may indeed be as genuine as it appears.
For additional insights, check out your horoscope.
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