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Flirting can take many forms, from light-hearted conversations during a run to playful gestures like snatching someone’s hat in a playful manner. Recently, a new approach has gained traction on TikTok—this technique is dubbed the “triangle method.” Contrary to what its name might suggest, it doesn’t involve a romantic getaway to ancient sites like the Pyramids of Giza (although that might also turn heads if you had the budget for it).
Here’s a comprehensive look at the triangle method of flirting, including its mechanics and how you can give it a shot:
What is the triangle method?
Imagine the face of the person you’re interested in. (Are you envisioning it? It’s essential to visualize!) Now, envision their eyes as the top point of a triangle and their mouth as the base. Gradually shift your gaze from the top of the triangle down to the bottom, making sure to focus on each eye individually before settling your gaze on their mouth. You’ve got the hang of it!
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What makes the triangle method appealing?
Allow me to channel some dating wisdom here: When engaged in flirtation, it’s essential for your target to feel like you are genuinely appreciating their presence—their features, voice, and unique qualities—without crossing into discomfort. The triangle method serves as an effective means of conveying interest without being overly forward. Furthermore, maintaining direct eye contact is universally regarded as a positive aspect of communication!
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Is there a scientific foundation for the triangle method?
A 2024 study examining adult speed-dating events revealed that individuals who shared more eye contact were more likely to be chosen as potential partners. The study also highlighted “perceived attractiveness” as a significant factor—an observation that isn’t particularly surprising in social interactions! While it’s certainly possible to share flirtatious glances without the triangle technique, a subtle focus on someone’s lips can further amplify attraction.
Should you try the triangle method yourself?
While I’m no authority on the subject, I think it’s worth a shot! In a personal experiment, I decided to test the triangle method within my own home with my partner. To my delight, he responded with equally intense eye contact. Although he may not have noticed my glance towards his lips, he eventually kissed me—though that could be attributed to finally tackling the pile of dishes in the sink!
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